I’ve been reading How To Relax by Thich Nhat Hanh – a tiny, beautiful book of meditations on mindfulness. (One of my Powell’s purchases!)
There have been a lot of amazing passages so far. Like this one: We human beings have lost confidence in the body just knowing what to do. If we have time alone with ourselves, we panic and try to do many different things. Mindful breathing helps us to relearn the art of resting. Mindful breathing is like a loving parent cradling a baby, saying, ‘Don’t worry, I’ll take good care of you; just rest.’
My favorite takeaway so far from How To Relax is this – my daily life, conducted with mindfulness, is a gift I give myself. I can’t remember if this is a passage I read in the book or a realization I had while reading it; probably the former.
I haven’t been giving myself a daily gift of life conducted in mindfulness lately. My mind has been crowded and scattered – all over the place.
I am hoping to go to a training on Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction sometime in the near future. I want to learn more about mindfulness as a psychological strategy and an academic concept.
But with the day-to-day of mindfulness – I know exactly what I need to do. I need to focus on the present moment. The challenge is actually doing it!
I can get very caught up in my head; it’s a big struggle for me to keep myself in the present moment. I get stuck in the past or in the future rather than staying in the peacefulness of the now.
Be more present – this was one of my resolutions for 2016. And I think I’m doing okay with it – good, but not great. One of my defaults when I’m stressed or overwhelmed is to rely on background noise – usually TV or a podcast – and I have been doing somewhat better with this habit o’ mine.
I find that when I’m doing something that forces me into the present moment – my evening walks with Tee, most of my work day, a doctor’s appointment – I can stay there and exist there happily. However, when I have the option to multi-task, I usually take it. (Right now, the fifth season of The Office is playing in the background as I type.)
My quest for mindfulness is ever-present. Someday (hopefully!) I will be, too.